{"id":1879,"date":"2016-11-15T14:28:13","date_gmt":"2016-11-15T14:28:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.syedara.com\/?p=1879"},"modified":"2016-11-15T14:28:13","modified_gmt":"2016-11-15T14:28:13","slug":"hal-yang-wajib-diketahui-bagi-yang-jomblo-dan-yang-telah-doble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/?p=1879","title":{"rendered":"Hal Yang Wajib Diketahui Bagi Yang Jomblo dan Yang Telah Doble"},"content":{"rendered":"

1.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0AKAN\u00a0MENIKAH
\nJanganlah\u00a0mencari\u00a0istri,\u00a0tapi\u00a0carilah\u00a0ibu\u00a0bagi\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0kita.
\nJanganlah\u00a0mencari\u00a0suami,\u00a0tapi\u00a0carilah\u00a0ayah\u00a0bagi\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0kita.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MELAMAR
\nAnda\u00a0bukan\u00a0sedang\u00a0meminta\u00a0kepada\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0si\u00a0gadis,\u00a0tapi\u00a0meminta\u00a0kepada\u00a0TUHAN\u00a0melalui\u00a0wali\u00a0si\u00a0gadis.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENIKAH
\nAnda\u00a0berdua\u00a0bukan\u00a0menikah\u00a0di\u00a0hadapan\u00a0negara,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0menikah\u00a0di\u00a0hadapan\u00a0TUHAN.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENEMPUH\u00a0HIDUP\u00a0BERKELUARGA
\nSadarilah\u00a0bahwa\u00a0jalan\u00a0yang\u00a0akan\u00a0dilalui\u00a0tidak\u00a0melalui\u00a0jalan\u00a0bertabur\u00a0bunga,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0juga\u00a0semak\u00a0belukar\u00a0yang\u00a0penuh\u00a0onak\u00a0dan\u00a0duri.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0BIDUK\u00a0RUMAH\u00a0TANGGA\u00a0OLENG
\nJangan\u00a0saling\u00a0berlepas\u00a0tangan,\u00a0tapi\u00a0sebaliknya\u00a0justru\u00a0semakin\u00a0erat\u00a0berpegang\u00a0tangan.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0TELAH\u00a0MEMILIKI\u00a0ANAK
\nJangan\u00a0bagi\u00a0cinta\u00a0anda\u00a0kepada\u00a0suami\/istri\u00a0dan\u00a0anak\u00a0Anda,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0cintailah\u00a0istri\u00a0atau\u00a0suami\u00a0Anda\u00a0100%\u00a0&\u00a0cintai\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0Anda\u00a0masing-masing\u00a0100%.<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANDA\u00a0ADALAH\u00a0SUAMI
\nBoleh\u00a0bermanja-manja\u00a0kepada\u00a0istri\u00a0tetapi\u00a0jangan\u00a0lupa\u00a0untuk\u00a0bangkit\u00a0secara\u00a0bertanggung\u00a0jawab\u00a0apabila\u00a0istri\u00a0membutuhkan\u00a0pertolongan\u00a0Anda.<\/p>\n

8.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANDA\u00a0ADALAH\u00a0ISTERI
\nTetaplah\u00a0berjalan\u00a0dengan\u00a0gemulai\u00a0dan\u00a0lemah\u00a0lembut,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0selalu\u00a0berhasil\u00a0menyelesaikan\u00a0semua\u00a0pekerjaan.<\/p>\n

9.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENDIDIK\u00a0ANAK
\nJangan\u00a0pernah\u00a0berpikir\u00a0bahwa\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0baik\u00a0adalah\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0tidak\u00a0pernah\u00a0marah\u00a0kepada\u00a0anak,\u00a0karena\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0baik\u00a0adalah\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0jujur\u00a0kepada\u00a0anak.<\/p>\n

10.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANAK\u00a0BERMASALAH
\nYakinilah\u00a0bahwa\u00a0tidak\u00a0ada\u00a0seorang\u00a0anakpun\u00a0yang\u00a0tidak\u00a0mau\u00a0bekerjasama\u00a0dengan\u00a0orang\u00a0tua,\u00a0yang\u00a0ada\u00a0adalah\u00a0anak\u00a0yang\u00a0merasa\u00a0tidak\u00a0didengar\u00a0oleh\u00a0orang\u00a0tuanya.<\/p>\n

11.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ADA\u00a0\u2018PIL\u2019\/\u00a0Pria\u00a0Idaman\u00a0Lain.
\nJangan\u00a0diminum,\u00a0cukuplah\u00a0suami\u00a0sebagai\u00a0tambatan\u00a0hati.<\/p>\n

12.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ADA\u00a0\u2018WIL\u2019\/\u00a0Wanita\u00a0Idaman Lain.
\nJangan\u00a0dituruti,\u00a0cukuplah\u00a0istri\u00a0sebagai\u00a0pelabuhan\u00a0hati.<\/p>\n

13.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MEMILIH\u00a0POTRET\u00a0KELUARGA
\nPilihlah\u00a0potret\u00a0keluarga\u00a0sekolah\u00a0yang\u00a0berada\u00a0dalam\u00a0proses\u00a0pertumbuhan\u00a0menuju\u00a0potret\u00a0keluarga\u00a0bahagia.<\/p>\n

14.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0INGIN\u00a0LANGGENG\u00a0&\u00a0HARMONIS GUNAKANLAH\u00a0FORMULA\u00a07K
\n1.\u00a0Ketakutan\u00a0akan\u00a0Tuhan
\n2.\u00a0Kasih\u00a0sayang
\n3.\u00a0Kesetiaan
\n4.\u00a0Komunikasi\u00a0dialogis
\n5.\u00a0Keterbukaan
\n6.\u00a0Kejujuran
\n7.\u00a0Kesabaran<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0AKAN\u00a0MENIKAH Janganlah\u00a0mencari\u00a0istri,\u00a0tapi\u00a0carilah\u00a0ibu\u00a0bagi\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0kita. Janganlah\u00a0mencari\u00a0suami,\u00a0tapi\u00a0carilah\u00a0ayah\u00a0bagi\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0kita. 2.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MELAMAR Anda\u00a0bukan\u00a0sedang\u00a0meminta\u00a0kepada\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0si\u00a0gadis,\u00a0tapi\u00a0meminta\u00a0kepada\u00a0TUHAN\u00a0melalui\u00a0wali\u00a0si\u00a0gadis. 3.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENIKAH Anda\u00a0berdua\u00a0bukan\u00a0menikah\u00a0di\u00a0hadapan\u00a0negara,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0menikah\u00a0di\u00a0hadapan\u00a0TUHAN. 4.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENEMPUH\u00a0HIDUP\u00a0BERKELUARGA Sadarilah\u00a0bahwa\u00a0jalan\u00a0yang\u00a0akan\u00a0dilalui\u00a0tidak\u00a0melalui\u00a0jalan\u00a0bertabur\u00a0bunga,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0juga\u00a0semak\u00a0belukar\u00a0yang\u00a0penuh\u00a0onak\u00a0dan\u00a0duri. 5.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0BIDUK\u00a0RUMAH\u00a0TANGGA\u00a0OLENG Jangan\u00a0saling\u00a0berlepas\u00a0tangan,\u00a0tapi\u00a0sebaliknya\u00a0justru\u00a0semakin\u00a0erat\u00a0berpegang\u00a0tangan. 6.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0TELAH\u00a0MEMILIKI\u00a0ANAK Jangan\u00a0bagi\u00a0cinta\u00a0anda\u00a0kepada\u00a0suami\/istri\u00a0dan\u00a0anak\u00a0Anda,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0cintailah\u00a0istri\u00a0atau\u00a0suami\u00a0Anda\u00a0100%\u00a0&\u00a0cintai\u00a0anak-anak\u00a0Anda\u00a0masing-masing\u00a0100%. 7.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANDA\u00a0ADALAH\u00a0SUAMI Boleh\u00a0bermanja-manja\u00a0kepada\u00a0istri\u00a0tetapi\u00a0jangan\u00a0lupa\u00a0untuk\u00a0bangkit\u00a0secara\u00a0bertanggung\u00a0jawab\u00a0apabila\u00a0istri\u00a0membutuhkan\u00a0pertolongan\u00a0Anda. 8.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANDA\u00a0ADALAH\u00a0ISTERI Tetaplah\u00a0berjalan\u00a0dengan\u00a0gemulai\u00a0dan\u00a0lemah\u00a0lembut,\u00a0tetapi\u00a0selalu\u00a0berhasil\u00a0menyelesaikan\u00a0semua\u00a0pekerjaan. 9.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MENDIDIK\u00a0ANAK Jangan\u00a0pernah\u00a0berpikir\u00a0bahwa\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0baik\u00a0adalah\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0tidak\u00a0pernah\u00a0marah\u00a0kepada\u00a0anak,\u00a0karena\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0baik\u00a0adalah\u00a0orang\u00a0tua\u00a0yang\u00a0jujur\u00a0kepada\u00a0anak. 10.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ANAK\u00a0BERMASALAH Yakinilah\u00a0bahwa\u00a0tidak\u00a0ada\u00a0seorang\u00a0anakpun\u00a0yang\u00a0tidak\u00a0mau\u00a0bekerjasama\u00a0dengan\u00a0orang\u00a0tua,\u00a0yang\u00a0ada\u00a0adalah\u00a0anak\u00a0yang\u00a0merasa\u00a0tidak\u00a0didengar\u00a0oleh\u00a0orang\u00a0tuanya. 11.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ADA\u00a0\u2018PIL\u2019\/\u00a0Pria\u00a0Idaman\u00a0Lain. Jangan\u00a0diminum,\u00a0cukuplah\u00a0suami\u00a0sebagai\u00a0tambatan\u00a0hati. 12.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0ADA\u00a0\u2018WIL\u2019\/\u00a0Wanita\u00a0Idaman Lain. Jangan\u00a0dituruti,\u00a0cukuplah\u00a0istri\u00a0sebagai\u00a0pelabuhan\u00a0hati. 13.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0MEMILIH\u00a0POTRET\u00a0KELUARGA Pilihlah\u00a0potret\u00a0keluarga\u00a0sekolah\u00a0yang\u00a0berada\u00a0dalam\u00a0proses\u00a0pertumbuhan\u00a0menuju\u00a0potret\u00a0keluarga\u00a0bahagia. 14.\u00a0KETIKA\u00a0INGIN\u00a0LANGGENG\u00a0&\u00a0HARMONIS GUNAKANLAH\u00a0FORMULA\u00a07K 1.\u00a0Ketakutan\u00a0akan\u00a0Tuhan 2.\u00a0Kasih\u00a0sayang 3.\u00a0Kesetiaan 4.\u00a0Komunikasi\u00a0dialogis 5.\u00a0Keterbukaan 6.\u00a0Kejujuran 7.\u00a0Kesabaran<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1880,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[284],"tags":[563,562,311],"class_list":["post-1879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspiration","tag-jomblo","tag-menikah","tag-pasangan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1879"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1879\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1880"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.syedara.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}